The very night that roommates assignments were posted, I remember rushing to see who I was going to be living with for the next year of my life. I'm not sure who I was expecting to see, seeing as I didn't know anyone attending the same university. However, not too long after looking at this list, I did what every other normal teenager in this day and age would have done, stalk my roommates on Facebook. Soon after, I find myself in one of the most awkward situations I've ever been in, a group message on Facebook with three strangers. We each wrote a paragraph introducing ourselves and from then on, it got even more awkward. Rather than having actual conversations, we sort of just announced what we would contribute to the room. Needless to say, I was nervous about my little predicament.
Then came the dreaded awkward moment when all of our parents left on move in day. We had dinner together that night and it was terrible. We were as quiet as we were on the Facebook chat room. The only difference was that in this scenario there was no escape from the sad attempts at small talk. Despite how strange it was, I found myself attending a lot of events with these three other girls. We didn't exactly "click" like how it happens in movies, but that didn't stop us from trying to get to know each other.
Now, its been a few weeks and we're definitely more comfortable with each other than before. We have our inside jokes and we're starting to discover each other's quirks.
We even stayed up until 5 in the morning made a bucket list together!
One thing that we wanted to, but couldn't put on the bucket list was having an O-H-I-O photo. Why?
Because we already accomplished that task!
L-R: Sarah, me, Kelly, Megan!
All in all, I am glad that we did not try to too hard to get to know each other over the internet, but began to get to know each other when we met each other in person. I don't think it would of been the same. Besides, we have a whole school year and a long list of things to do together; there will be plenty of time for us to bond.
Jenny